Main Topic
An in-depth explanation of jealousy (Hasad), its spiritual dangers, and the importance of being content with how Allah Ta'ala distributes His blessings among people.
Key Lessons
- Hasad (jealousy) is defined as desiring that a bounty possessed by another person be stripped away or that a calamity afflict them.
- Allah Ta'ala bestows different talents, skill sets, and worldly provisions upon each individual; resentfulness of another's success is ultimately resentment toward Allah's divine distribution.
- Remaining silent (Khamushi) protects a person from committing sins of the tongue, but solitude must be filled with Dhikrullah to prevent Shaitan from injecting doubts and bad thoughts.
- Comparing spouses, children, or students to others breeds discontentment; every individual possesses unique strengths and weaknesses that must be acknowledged and appreciated.
Quranic/Hadith References
- Sayyiduna Zakariya (A.S.) / Sacred Tradition: Allah Ta'ala states that a jealous person is an enemy of His bounty, upset with His decree, and unhappy with His allotment.
- Hadith: Jealousy devours a person's good deeds just as fire devours dry wood.
- Prophetic Wisdom: Do not say anything for which you may have to apologize tomorrow.
- Quranic Reference (Surah An-Nisa: 19): If you dislike something in your spouse, Allah Ta'ala may have placed much goodness in her that you do not realize.
Practical Advice
- Avoid making derogatory comparisons between classmates, siblings, or colleagues.
- Overlook minor shortcomings in your spouse and focus on their loyalty and positive character traits.
- Utilize moments of solitude for dhikr, contemplation, and beneficial reading rather than useless fantasizing or entertaining doubts.
Hazrat Moulana Dawood Seedat Saheb