Main Topic
Conveying rewards (Isal-e-Sawab) to the deceased and refuting un-Islamic customs around graves.
Key Lessons
- Muslims should refrain from imitating un-Islamic practices and grave innovations, such as placing food, milk, or items at gravesites.
- The true benefit for the marhum (deceased) comes from Dua-e-Maghfirat (supplication for forgiveness) and sending rewards of righteous deeds.
- Performing voluntary (nafl) good deeds—such as charity, Tahajjud, fasts, and Quran recitation—on behalf of parents or scholars reaches them without diminishing one's own reward.
- Being buried near pious individuals brings spiritual benefits, as divine mercy (Rahmat) and tranquility (Sakina) encompass the area.
Quranic/Hadith References
- Hadith of Sayyidina Sa'ad bin Ubadah Radiyallahu Anhu, who dug a water well on behalf of his deceased mother upon the counsel of Nabi Karim Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam.
- Hadith of Hazrat Ibn Umar Radiyallahu Anhum stating that voluntary charity (nafl sadaqa) given on behalf of parents conveys full reward to them as well as the giver.
- Narration of Hajjaj bin Dinar Radiyallahu Anhu regarding continuing khidmat (service) to parents after their passing through voluntary worship.
- Statement of Hazrat Sha'bi Rahimahullah regarding the practice of the Ansar reciting Quran at graves and sending the reward to the deceased.
- Hadith of Hazrat Ibn Abbas Radiyallahu Anhu emphasizing the benefit of having a pious neighbor both in life and in the grave.
Practical Advice
- Frequently make Dua-e-Maghfirat and send Isal-e-Sawab to deceased parents, grandparents, teachers (ustads), and great scholars of Islam.
- Utilize voluntary acts of worship—such as the six fasts of Shawwal, Tahajjud, and Quran recitation—to convey rewards to departed loved ones.
- Avoid superstitious practices, wasteful grave rituals, and unnecessary fixation on dream interpretations.