Main Topic
This lecture reflects on Verse 100 of Surah Yusuf, deriving two profound spiritual and moral lessons from the manner in which Hazrat Yusuf (Alayhis Salam) addressed his father Nabi Yaqub (Alayhis Salam) after decades of separation: Positive Thinking and Consideration for Others.
Key Lessons
- Positive Framing of Hardships: Nabi Yusuf (Alayhis Salam) went through three major trials: the injustice of his brothers, separation from his parents, and imprisonment. When recounting his story, he mentioned his imprisonment first through the lens of gratitude for release, highlighted his family's arrival as a blessing, and attributed his brothers' actions to Shaytan rather than harboring resentment.
- Perspective Alters Impact: Approaching trials with firm trust in Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta'ala) and focusing on the bigger picture reduces the burden of hardship, whereas negative focus magnifies minor troubles.
- Gratitude Amidst Suffering: The story of Abu Qilaba (Rahimahullah)—a Tabi'i deprived of his limbs, sight, and hearing, yet constantly thanking Allah for his remaining ability to remember Him—illustrates focusing on blessings rather than misfortunes.
- High Level Consideration: Nabi Yusuf (Alayhis Salam) covered for his brothers to preserve their dignity before their father. Islam emphasizes having deep consideration for others' feelings, even towards those who may have wronged us.
Quranic/Hadith References
- Surah Yusuf (12:100): Yusuf (A.S.) attributes the discord to Shaytan and expresses gratitude to Allah for His kindness.
- Hadith Qudsi: Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala states, "I am as My servant expects Me to be."
- Prophetic Consideration: Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) shortened his prayer upon hearing a child cry out of consideration for the mother's feelings, and advised against speaking ill of the deceased to avoid grieving the living.
Practical Advice
- Train yourself to look for silver linings and divine wisdom during tests and trials.
- Maintain positive expectations (husn al-dhann) of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala in all situations.
- Practice restraint in speech—avoid venting about family disagreements to third parties or spouses to avoid causing unnecessary distress.
- Exercise forgiveness and shield the dignity of others, even those who have wronged you.
Hazrat Moulana Dawood Seedat Saheb