Main Topic
An explanation from Hidayatul Saliqeen regarding the prohibition of suicide during times of severe trial, and the true source of peace and contentment (Sakina) in a believer's life.
Key Lessons
- Steadfastness of the Sahaba and Awliya: Despite facing extreme persecution and hardship, no Sahabi (Radiallahu Anhu) or friend of Allah ever committed suicide. They faced difficulties with patience (sabr) and fortitude, which only strengthened their faith.
- The Illusion of Escaping Pain: Taking one's own life does not end suffering; rather, it leads to severe punishment in the grave (qabr) and Hellfire (Jahannam), which are far worse than any worldly trial.
- Refraining from Judgment: While suicide is strictly forbidden in Islam, believers should not pass definitive judgment on individuals who committed suicide, as their exact mental state and final moments are known only to Allah Ta'ala.
- Material Luxuries vs. Inner Peace: Material wealth, jewelry, houses, and cars are merely temporary means (asbab); they cannot grant true inner peace or contentment.
- The Source of Sakina: Real peace of heart is a divine gift from Allah Ta'ala bestowed upon those who obey Him, follow the Sunnah of Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam), and refrain from sins.
Quranic/Hadith References
- Surah Al-Fath (48:4): "Huwal-ladhi anzalas-sakinata fee quloobil-mu'mineen" ("He it is Who sent down tranquility into the hearts of the believers").
Practical Advice
- Hold firmly onto Allah Ta'ala during times of distress, hardship, or marital conflicts instead of contemplating extreme or harmful measures.
- Never threaten self-harm or suicide during personal disputes or emotional breakdown.
- Seek inner peace through obedience to Allah, adhering to the Sunnah, and abstaining from sins (gunahs) rather than chasing material wealth.