Main Topic
Reflections on the delegation of the Ash'ariyeen from Yemen, the high spiritual status of having a soft heart, and the vital role of seeking consultation (mashwara) with a spiritual guide.
Key Lessons
- The Ash'ariyeen were praised by Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) for their soft-heartedness, leading to the Hadith declaring that faith and wisdom are Yemeni.
- True spiritual reformation (islaah) requires a soft, malleable heart capable of absorbing guidance and enduring life's hardships without becoming bitter.
- Taking bay'at means surrendering one's ego (nafs) to be molded by a spiritual mentor rather than insisting on personal opinions.
- Every head of a household is a shepherd over their dependents and must lead with patience, gentleness, and care rather than harshness.
Quranic/Hadith References
- Couplet of the Ash'ariyeen: "Ghadan nalqal ahibba, Muhammadan wa hizba" ("Tomorrow we shall meet the beloved ones, Muhammad and his companions").
- Hadith: "Al-imanu yamaniyun wal-hikmatu yamaniyun" ("Faith is Yemeni and wisdom is Yemeni").
- Hadith: "All of you are shepherds, and each one of you will be questioned regarding his flock."
- Hadith regarding tranquility being found among those who tend sheep and goats, whereas pride is found among camel herders.
Practical Advice
- Always seek consultation (mashwara) with a Sheikh or wise elder before making key personal or family decisions.
- Once guidance is received from a mentor, accept it wholeheartedly instead of arguing or forcing personal preferences.
- Exercise forbearance (sabr) at home with family members, acting like a caring shepherd rather than an overbearing ruler.
Hazrat Moulana Dawood Seedat Saheb