Hazrat Moulana Dawood Seedat Saheb Madrasah Isha'atul Haq · Albert Falls Albert Falls, KwaZulu-Natal
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Talk Zikr And Dua | Hazrat Moulana Dawood Seedat Saheb
Talk Zikr And Dua Hazrat Moulana Dawood Seedat Saheb
Hijri date 29 Zul Qa'dah 1438
Date 21 August 2017
Duration 1:03:55
Venue Masjid Taqwa Summary Main Topic
This lecture focuses on cultivating consistency (Istiqamat ) and sincerity (Ikhlas ) in good deeds, and transitioning from outward excitement to inner piety (Taqwa ) as the sacred month of Dhul Hijjah and the days of Qurbani approach.
Key Lessons
Actions often begin with outward excitement or subtle elements of show (Riyah ), but maintaining them consistently over time purifies the intention and fosters true Ikhlas .
The spiritual feelings (kaefiyat ) or enjoyment experienced initially may fade; true worship occurs when one continues solely for the pleasure of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala after that excitement subsides.
The core of Qurbani (sacrifice) is not merely the procurement and display of animals, but the attainment of Taqwa (god-consciousness and restraint).
Developing Taqwa requires active protection (Hifazat ) of one's faculties: guarding the eyes from unlawful glances, the tongue from backbiting (Ghibat ) and lies, the ears from improper sounds, and the heart from sinful desires.
Spiritual progress involves humbling oneself in conflicts, letting go of worldly disputes, and forgiving others out of love for Rasulullah Sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
Preparations for seasonal worship or festivities must never cause one to neglect mandatory duties (Fara'id ) or miss the primary congregation (Takbir-e-Ula ).
Quranic/Hadith References
Surah Al-Hajj (22:37) : "Neither their meat nor their blood reaches Allah, but what reaches Him is piety (Taqwa ) from you."
Surah Qaf (50:18) : "Not a word does he utter but there is a watcher by him, ready to record it."
Hadith : The most beloved deed to Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala is that which is continuous, even if it is small.
Story of Ibrahim Alayhis salam and Ismail Alayhis salam regarding the spirit of sacrifice.
Practical Advice
Persist in Good Deeds : Ignore Satanic whispers urging you to abandon good deeds due to a perceived lack of sincerity; Ikhlas develops through persistent action.
Guard the Senses : Avoid environments that compromise spiritual well-being (such as places of fitnah), remove musical ringtones, and lower your gaze.
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— Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. 0:05 Alhamdulillah. 0:07 Alhamdulillah wa kafaa. 0:09 Wassalatu wassalamu ala Sayyidinil Mustafa. 0:13 Sallallahu alayhi wa ala alihi wa ashabihi wa baraka wa sallamu tasliman kafiran kafiran. 0:21 Ma ba'd. 0:21 Faqad qala Allahu tabaraka wa ta'ala fil Quranil Majeed. 0:26 A'udhu billahi minash shaitanir rajeem. 0:28 Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem. 0:32 Lay yanal Allah luhumuha wala dima'uha wala ki yanaluhu taqwa minkum. 0:40 Sadaqallahu nadeem. 0:43 Alhamdulillah. 0:44 With the fazal karam and ihsan of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 0:48 We are gathered once again on a Monday night. 0:53 For a program in which some aspect of our Islah is generally discussed. 0:58 Something for Allah is made and we engage in some Dua. 1:04 Continuing with the Kitab of our Hazrat Rahmatullah Ali titled Ikhlas. 1:12 Hazrat Haji Imdadullah Sahib Rahmatullah Ali had said that sometimes when a person starts doing a certain Amal 1:23 Then it starts off with Riyah. 1:27 Starts off with some show. 1:33 However, after a while, if he keeps to it, then this action becomes habit. 1:44 When it becomes habit, then Ikhlas will come. 1:53 Say for example, a person decided that I am going to feed ten people every morning. 2:09 Making intention, every morning I am going to feed ten poor people. 2:16 So the first day he does it, it's all exciting, you know. 2:20 It's exciting. 2:22 He himself feels good about himself. 2:26 And then he'll want to tell everybody, this is what I'm doing. 2:34 So initially there will be some badbu of riyakari. 2:39 He wants people to know, people to come to know what amal he's doing, etc. 2:45 However, if he continues with it, after a while, 2:51 It's not easy to sustain it. 2:54 Sometime financially a person may be okay. 2:56 He can sustain it financially. 2:59 But to do it with istiqamat every day. 3:03 Now it becomes a bauj. 3:06 Becomes like a difficult task. 3:10 But now when he will still continue. 3:13 Everybody else also came to know about it already. 3:16 Now there is no nawai. 3:18 He is out of the news. 3:20 Somebody else is doing something else. 3:22 They'll worry about the next person. 3:24 He's feeding. 3:26 From long he's feeding. 3:28 He'll carry on. 3:30 Initially it will be like. 3:31 It's man. 3:32 He's feeding. 3:34 After that. 3:37 See for example. 3:39 Some years ago. 3:41 We made announcement here in the masjid. 3:45 We said that look. 3:47 There are certain schools. 3:48 Underprivileged children. 3:52 And one school, we can take on one school for a start. 3:57 Once a week, we give them sandwiches, right? 4:02 So initially, can you all remember, an hospital has made a big hype about the whole thing. 4:08 Somebody came, no ma, we give them poloni sandwiches every week. 4:11 Somebody came, no no, give them that sandwich, this sandwich. 4:15 Get it done, we take on another school. 4:16 It's all like a hype. 4:19 I think by now, all of you have even forgotten 4:23 That school exists. 4:25 Alhamdulillah. 4:27 Those people who are making the sandwiches. 4:30 Every day. 4:30 Every week. 4:30 They are still making the sandwiches. 4:33 Right. 4:34 So. 4:35 Initially there were many ladies. 4:37 Right. 4:38 Because the hype. 4:38 Everything is a hype. 4:40 Right. 4:41 Everybody wants to get involved. 4:42 And you know. 4:45 After that. 4:46 Now it becomes a job. 4:47 Right. 4:49 Nishadi. 4:50 It's a hype. 4:50 After it becomes a job, there's calm involved. 4:54 Right? 4:55 So now, the only thing that will motivate the person to continue is that Allah Paak is going to reward me. 5:03 All the wahwa from the people finished now. 5:06 The person feeling good about himself, that too is finished because now he's no more feeling very good about himself. 5:12 Now he's working hard. 5:14 Right? 5:15 Now the only thing that's going to motivate him is 5:18 Only thing that's going to motivate him is that my Allah will be pleased. 5:23 My Allah will reward me. 5:25 Maybe this will be a means of my Najat. 5:27 This will be a means of my salvation in Akhirat. 5:32 So a person must, we must develop Istiqamat. 5:38 In any Amal that we do. 5:40 This is why Nabiya Kareem Sallallahu alayhi wasallam mentioned that 5:46 The most beloved deed to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is that deed in which a person has got istiqamat. 5:55 Even though it may be little bit. 5:57 Even though it may be a little bit. 6:00 But if a person got istiqamat on it, then that's the deed that is most beloved to Allah. 6:06 Because eventually ikhlas must come into that amal. 6:10 Ikhlas will come into that deed. 6:14 Ji. 6:16 So, any Ibadat, after performing the Ibadat initially, and I hear this all the time, and I experienced it myself also, right? 6:26 Initially, when you started going for Zikr, then when you started making Zikr and all that, it's a different feeling, you know? 6:36 And many people that start coming for Zikr programs, after a while, they write 6:45 Say no more. 6:46 I'm carrying on with my zikr and all that. 6:48 But those feelings that I was getting initially, I'm not getting those feelings anymore. 6:54 That feeling that I was getting initially, I'm not getting that feeling anymore. 6:58 So the initially when the person was making zikr and he was getting those feelings, right? 7:04 So what was motivating him to make his zikr again tomorrow? 7:09 Is the feelings. 7:10 He had an enjoyment. 7:11 He had an enjoyment. 7:14 So that was the motivating factor that will make him make zikr next day again. 7:18 He wants to experience that enjoyment. 7:22 Right? 7:24 After a while, that enjoyment goes away. 7:28 Enjoyment goes away. 7:31 He doesn't experience that excitement. 7:35 Now he will only continue if he is doing it for Allah's pleasure. 7:40 And when that excitement stops, 7:44 And a person still continues with istiqamat. 7:48 Now he is making ibadat. 7:51 Now he is making ibadat. 7:52 Because now he is doing it only and solely for Allah's pleasure. 7:56 Then in between now and again, he will get some kefiat. 8:01 Allah will give him some kefiat. 8:03 But now he won't be chasing that anymore. 8:06 Now he will be doing it solely for Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 8:09 Not for anybody else. 8:12 So whatever it may be. 8:13 Person wakes up for tahajjud. 8:15 Person makes dhikrullah. 8:17 Think about it. 8:18 Youngster becomes Hafizul Quran. 8:22 So they have one jalsa for him. 8:23 Very exciting. 8:25 Everybody comes to meet him and all that. 8:28 But then do they do their every namaz? 8:31 You finish. 8:32 After that excitement is over. 8:34 Your jalsa is finished. 8:35 Now do your job. 8:36 Carry on. 8:37 Every year you complete Taraweeh. 8:39 Hmm? 8:41 So if a person became Hafizul Quran just for all that wahwa and the pats on his back, after that he won't make dua no more. 8:50 He'll finish at majlisah. 8:51 If a person got love for Quran Sharif, love for Allah Ta'ala, now he'll be consistent. 8:57 He'll continue. 8:59 He'll live up to how a Hafiz is supposed to live. 9:02 Because he did it for Allah's pleasure. 9:05 Understand? 9:06 So any amal that we do, we must be consistent. 9:09 We must continue with it. 9:11 Right? 9:12 Then slowly Ikhlas will come. 9:16 You'll get Ikhlas in that Amal. 9:18 And it is the Ikhlas. 9:20 It is the Ikhlas that will lend weight to those Aamal. 9:26 Sometime Shaitan whispers in a person. 9:30 Right? 9:31 He says that no. 9:35 What's the sense doing it when you don't have Ikhlas? 9:39 What's the sense doing it? 9:42 So, we must ignore that whispering of shaitan. 9:46 And we must continue doing our aamal. 9:49 Because slowly, if we continue, we carry on with istiqamat, the class will come in. 9:54 Just ask the students. 9:56 When they just came to madrasah, the first weekend they go home, all the musallis will meet them, you know. 10:04 How's it there? 10:05 Alright. 10:06 Carrying on. 10:07 Cap your students. 10:09 After that, 10:11 They come weekend. 10:13 They go back. 10:15 Nobody notices anymore. 10:16 Right? 10:17 You just start wearing kurta. 10:19 People will notice you. 10:22 After that when it becomes your dressing. 10:24 Who notices you after that? 10:26 Person who didn't have a beard. 10:28 Now he starts lengthening his beard. 10:29 So initially people will notice him. 10:31 After that who is going to notice? 10:33 Becomes a norm. 10:35 Person becomes a namazi. 10:37 Starts coming to the masjid. 10:38 Right? 10:39 So initially people will notice him. 10:41 There's a new Musalli. 10:43 New face we got. 10:44 One, two of his friends may even tease him and all that. 10:47 After that, once he's regular, then who notices him? 10:51 Now he'll only continue because he wants Allah to notice him. 10:55 He wants Allah to notice him. 11:01 So slowly we are. 11:04 Tomorrow, inshaAllah, the moon will be sighted tomorrow night if Allah Almighty wills. 11:10 Then tomorrow night will be the first of Dhul Hijjah. 11:13 And then few more days. 11:16 And it will be the day of Eidul Adha. 11:21 So Alhamdulillah. 11:22 It's a very good thing that we see in the Ummah. 11:27 Everybody is talking about Qurbani animals. 11:32 People sometime travel the length and breadth of the province if not the country. 11:38 Looking for the special Qurbani animal. 11:41 Somebody is looking for some very special animal. 11:44 Person has got that Jazba. 11:48 Never mind. 11:49 Qurbani. 11:50 Whatever it is now. 11:52 I'll spend and I'll do my Qurbani. 11:56 So Alhamdulillah that is a very good thing. 11:58 It's a very good sign. 12:00 And you mustn't break anybody's Jazba. 12:03 It's a good thing. 12:04 However, 12:06 What we need to really understand is that what Allah is looking for is Taqwa. 12:15 Allah is looking for Taqwa. 12:18 Allah, the meat is not going to go to Allah. 12:22 The blood is not going to go to Allah. 12:25 What Allah is looking for in our Qurbani is this quality of Taqwa. 12:33 Taqwa, we say fear of Allah. 12:38 So when a person will have the fear for Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, then automatically he is going to comply with Allah Paak's ahkam, all the commands of Allah ta'ala. 12:49 He or she is going to comply with that. 12:52 And a person is going to abstain and stay very far away from anything that displeases Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 12:58 Right? 13:01 So one is all the effort 13:06 And the time and the energies and everything that is put into acquiring that qurbani animal. 13:13 Right? 13:13 And all the preparation and you know everything that goes into it. 13:18 Right? 13:20 But that is just the qurbani animal. 13:24 What we need to ask ourselves is that what am I doing this build up towards Eid al-Adha and 13:34 What am I doing to develop some taqwa within me? 13:40 What steps am I taking to develop some taqwa within me? 13:45 Right? 13:46 See, if Allah has given a person wealth, then what difficulty is there in doing qurbani? 13:55 If a person got money, what difficulty is there in doing qurbani? 14:02 To cut an animal's throat, how difficult is it? 14:06 It's not a difficult task to make zabah of an animal. 14:10 It's not a difficult task. 14:13 People are making zabah of animals daily, every day of their life. 14:17 They are making zabah. 14:19 So many animals are being slaughtered. 14:22 Right? 14:23 But there's no like special rewards and special sawab for those animals. 14:28 But this particular occasion, 14:31 It's an ibadah. 14:33 Any person who is sahib and nisab is wajib for him to carry it out. 14:38 Right? 14:40 So, we have to be taking steps to develop that taqwa. 14:44 Bring some taqwa into our lives. 14:49 Now, what can we do? 14:51 What can we do to develop the taqwa? 14:56 Number one, watch our tongues. 15:01 Watch our tongues. 15:03 I mustn't make anybody's ghibat. 15:06 I mustn't sway anybody. 15:08 I must not lie. 15:09 I must not deceive anybody. 15:14 My Allah is listening to my every word. 15:17 Ma yalfidhu min qawlin illa ladayhi raqeebun aateed. 15:23 Not a word comes out except these words. 15:27 Everything is being written down. 15:28 Every word that we are uttering is being recorded. 15:33 Right? 15:35 So my tongue, I need to watch my tongue. 15:38 Number two, I need to watch my eyes. 15:43 Must make ifazat of my eyes. 15:49 So many, lot of people they ask me, they say, Mauna, you don't come to the fair. 15:54 You don't come 15:57 Qurbani. 15:59 So I said, see, I am a weak person. 16:04 I am a very weak person. 16:07 We got no taqwa to start off with. 16:10 Now in 10, 11, 12 days time, Allah is going to check Muhammad's taqwa to slaughter the animal. 16:20 So whatever little bit we may try to generate in this couple of days, if I came to the fair, I'll lose it all. 16:29 So many ladies all walking around. 16:30 I won't make ifazat of my eyes. 16:33 So strong people. 16:34 MashaAllah. 16:35 People with strong iman. 16:37 With high quantities of taqwa etc. 16:40 They can manage. 16:41 Because they will be able to make ifazat of their eyes. 16:44 Look down. 16:44 You know. 16:45 They will be able to handle themselves. 16:47 You know they say. 16:50 That if you are not a snake charmer. 16:52 Don't play with the snake. 16:55 You are not a snake charmer. 16:57 Don't play with the snake. 16:59 You see those, those fellows in India, they charm the snake. 17:03 I don't know if you've seen it. 17:06 When India, you saw how they, they have one basket with a lid on the top. 17:14 Inside they've got a cobra. 17:15 A cobra is such a dangerous snake. 17:20 Right? 17:23 But this fellow, he will start playing his flute. 17:28 Hmm? 17:29 And then he opens the lid. 17:32 And he mesmerizes the cobra. 17:35 So the cobra will rise also. 17:37 It comes up. 17:39 But it will not attack him. 17:41 It will not do anything to him. 17:44 So now we can't, if you see somebody doing that, you can't try. 17:50 You can't say, alright, I think this is a good tamasha, this. 17:56 Let me also take the fruit and try. 17:59 We'll be candidate for the Qabristan. 18:04 Mawlana Gerarduddin Rumi rahmatullahi. 18:07 He mentions. 18:09 He says that in Baghdad. 18:12 There are many snake catchers. 18:14 People used to catch the snakes. 18:17 Alhamdulillah. 18:20 So it used to be a thing of like bravery. 18:23 That you can go and catch a snake. 18:29 So one person, he was not a snake catcher. 18:33 He was travelling and at that time it was ice cold. 18:36 It was a very very cold weather. 18:38 So there was one huge snake. 18:42 But the snake is cold blooded and when it's ice cold, they go away into like hiding. 18:48 They don't move much. 18:49 They like, they're dead. 18:52 So he came across the snake. 18:55 It's a huge snake and it's dead. 18:58 So he thought to himself, you know what, let me take this snake, go to the city and show the people what a brave snake khacha I am, you know. 19:09 It's a story. 19:12 The stories are not real. 19:13 Most of the stories is like fairy tales, but he pulls out an ibrat, a lesson from them. 19:20 So anyway, he captures the snake thinking it's dead and he brings it away to the city. 19:29 He comes to the city now. 19:30 It's still early morning. 19:32 Comes to the city. 19:34 Showing the people. 19:34 What a brave person he is that he captured the snake. 19:40 Now slowly, the sun started coming out. 19:43 The snake started getting warmed up. 19:47 So now the snake started moving. 19:49 When the snake started moving, then he was the first person to run away. 19:54 Why? 19:54 Because he's not a snake catcher. 19:55 He doesn't know how to catch a snake. 19:59 So a person who has got weak Iman, who has got a weak resolve, doesn't have any Taqwa in him, he mustn't try it out by you going to places where there is fitna. 20:14 Like some people, they go in the casino, you know. 20:17 So you ask them, what are you doing in the casino? 20:20 They say, I went to buy one packet monkey nuts. 20:23 They make a monkey of you also. 20:26 So now I wanted to buy some snack or something on the way. 20:29 So I said let me just stop here by GH and I'll buy it and carry on. 20:35 I was on my way to Durban. 20:36 So I said no I'd rather stop here. 20:38 There's so many petrol stations with quick shops and all that. 20:42 You couldn't stop anywhere else. 20:43 So I said no I'd rather stop here. 20:44 Just get some cold drink, some snack for the road, some chocolate, something and then I'll carry on with my journey. 20:52 So now, if a person goes away inside a place like that, he can get tempted, you know, get tempted to do something else which is haram, right? 21:05 So we have to watch ourselves in these days, not only in these days, but now we've got to be more conscious of it. 21:14 We've got to be more conscious that I'm coming towards this amal, right? 21:19 And this amal of mine is going to be judged. 21:22 Allah Ta'ala is going to check my taqwa. 21:27 So I must make ifazat of my eyes. 21:30 Make ifazat of my tongue. 21:32 Make ifazat of my eyes. 21:34 My eyes I must make ifazat. 21:37 I must look as far as possible at any naamahram woman. 21:42 Any naamahram woman comes in front of me. 21:46 I must move my gaze. 21:47 If by mistake I saw somebody quickly I must turn my gaze. 21:52 I mustn't look again. 21:53 Right? 21:56 Then I must make ifazat of my ears. 22:01 My ears I need to make ifazat. 22:04 If anybody is talking making some ribat or something I must move away from them. 22:13 If I can stop the person I stop the person. 22:16 If I cannot stop the person, then at least I must extract myself from that type of atmosphere, that type of environment. 22:24 I must move myself away. 22:27 Right? 22:28 So I must make a facet of my ears. 22:30 I must listen to music. 22:33 If I got musical ringtone on my cell phone, I must change it. 22:37 Why must I have musical ringtone? 22:40 Every time the phone rings, I'm going to be listening to music. 22:44 I must change the musical ringtone. 22:47 So I must make ifazat of my ears. 22:50 Then I must make ifazat of my mind. 22:53 What am I thinking about? 22:57 Am I fantasizing? 22:59 Am I thinking haram? 23:01 Because Allah knows what my thoughts are. 23:06 Then I need to watch my desires, the desires of my heart. 23:11 The desire of my heart, where is it going? 23:16 So these things will cause me to develop some taqwa. 23:22 Slowly, slowly, some taqwa will be developed. 23:25 But you see, this type of thing is not exciting. 23:31 It's not the exciting part of the qurmani. 23:36 In fact, when we speak about it, we sleep way too long. 23:41 So this is not the exciting part. 23:43 Exciting part now is to go look for animals. 23:47 So I got this one. 23:48 That one. 23:49 So I bought this one. 23:50 That. 23:51 This. 23:51 That's all the exciting part. 23:54 So that's also part of the Ibadat. 23:56 I don't say it's not the part of the Ibadat. 23:58 But the main essence is this. 24:01 That we must develop some level of taqwa. 24:04 Some level of taqwa. 24:05 Must bring into ourselves. 24:07 Right? 24:08 So we got these days and nights that are coming ahead of us. 24:13 We must turn to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. 24:15 I know my weaknesses. 24:17 My gunas. 24:19 You may be having your own gunas. 24:21 Your own weaknesses. 24:22 We must turn to Allah ta'ala. 24:24 Ya Allah. 24:25 Forgive us. 24:26 Forgive us Ya Allah. 24:29 Make our hearts clean. 24:30 We got any problems with anybody, disputes with anybody, whatever, sort it out. 24:36 Sort it out. 24:37 There's no problem that can't be sorted out. 24:40 All you got to do is just ask maafi and finish, give the next person the benefit of the doubt and ask for maaf and close the chapter. 24:49 It's very easy. 24:51 If you want to sort a problem out, all you got to do is give the next person the benefit of the doubt, right? 24:58 Whatever the problem is, give him the advantage. 25:01 Give the person who we're disputing with, give that person the advantage. 25:04 Right? 25:05 And then ask the person for maaf. 25:07 Say, no, it's my fault. 25:08 Forgive me. 25:09 Make me maaf. 25:10 Right? 25:11 And the story is over. 25:14 The problem comes about is when nobody from the both parties, no party is prepared to humble themselves. 25:23 We want to fight. 25:24 Nobody is prepared to humble themselves. 25:26 Right? 25:26 If one party just gives in, always give this 25:31 Example. 25:32 That you come into the parking lot. 25:35 Come into the parking lot. 25:37 And. 25:37 There's one parking bay. 25:42 Two cars are racing for it. 25:45 Two cars are racing. 25:46 Now you can't put two cars in one parking bay. 25:49 Even if they're small cars. 25:52 So what's going to happen now? 25:55 We're either going to make an accident. 25:57 If both are bullheaded. 26:00 Then they'll make an accident. 26:02 Or we're going to end up in a fight. 26:04 Because other person may, A may beat B into the parking bay, right? 26:11 So B is going to come out and he's going to use some words starting with the same alphabet. 26:21 And then the fight will start. 26:24 Right? 26:24 But if the one person, maybe he was even waiting there beforehand. 26:29 It was his right of way. 26:31 He had his indicator on. 26:32 Everything. 26:33 Everything was for him. 26:36 Another person came and took the bay. 26:39 Right? 26:40 So he says, okay, never mind. 26:42 He can have the bay here. 26:44 Right? 26:45 No problem. 26:46 Let me just carry on. 26:48 Allah will give me some other parking. 26:50 Story is finished. 26:52 He gave the other man the benefit. 26:54 Gave him the advantage. 26:55 And he went to him. 26:57 But when we want to sit and argue the principle of the matter, and what's right is right and what's wrong is wrong and all those stories, then the fight will carry on. 27:12 So rather make maaf, forget about it. 27:16 Even if it's big things. 27:19 Even if it is big things. 27:22 Where are we going to take all these things to the cupboard and go? 27:26 Sometime it can be a big dispute also. 27:29 I must ask myself. 27:31 Is he my Razzaq? 27:35 Sometime I feel. 27:36 Say there is a big dispute. 27:38 This man usurped my property. 27:42 Property is a big thing. 27:44 Man usurped my property. 27:46 Now where am I going to take this thing and go to the Kaabar way? 27:50 Allah knows what is the reality of the situation. 27:54 Right? 27:55 So, you know what? 27:56 I'm not going to fight this thing. 27:58 If the man never asked for maafi, he never asked for maafi, right? 28:04 Then you're not obliged to make him maaf. 28:07 Right? 28:08 And if you really feel that that is yours, you can tell the person that, look, you know this is my property, right? 28:18 And you have taken it. 28:21 If you feel it is yours, 28:23 Fine. 28:24 No problem. 28:25 Keep it. 28:27 Ya Madi. 28:28 Allah will make the ruining. 28:30 Allah will make the first luck. 28:32 That's other, right? 28:33 You're going on the line of justice. 28:35 Allah will make the first luck. 28:36 Ya Madi. 28:38 I have no more time to sit and fight here in the dunya. 28:41 I'm not going to allow this thing to consume my mind and make khalal in my namaz and make me a miserable person at home. 28:49 I'm not going to allow all that. 28:51 Right? 28:54 The other way, say, Ya Allah, this is your bandha. 29:01 In his mind, his thinking is his. 29:05 I give it to him. 29:07 I make him maaf also. 29:10 I give it to him, I make him maaf. 29:13 Ya Allah, you make me maaf. 29:15 I got a lot of my own baggage. 29:18 On day of Qiyamah, when I come, you make me maaf. 29:22 The story is over. 29:25 Finished. 29:27 What did a person lose? 29:30 One small patch of land of this world. 29:34 That's all he lost. 29:36 Right? 29:37 What he will gain in the Akhirat? 29:40 How much Allah will give him? 29:42 How pleased Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wasallam will be with him? 29:46 He says, you know what? 29:48 This person, now where am I going to take this dispute and go in front of Allah? 29:53 And what if this friend of mine is wrong? 29:57 Then he is going to go to Jahannam. 30:01 He is going to go to Jahannam. 30:02 And Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wasallam is going to see his Ummati going to Jahannam. 30:05 How Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wasallam is going to feel? 30:09 Out of love for Nabi Sallallahu alayhi wasallam, I make this person maaf finish. 30:15 I forgive him. 30:16 Story is over. 30:17 I don't want him. 30:17 I don't want Nabi sallallahu alayhi wasallam to see his ummati now go to Jahannam over something that I got a dispute with him. 30:25 Rather I forgive him. 30:27 So this is a higher level. 30:31 A higher level. 30:32 Allah forgive us. 30:32 Taufiq is easy to talk. 30:34 For me also. 30:36 Easy to talk. 30:38 But when the situation happens is a different story. 30:41 Then we don't know how we will react. 30:44 But at least talking time, let's talk. 30:47 Talking time, let's talk. 30:49 And we make dua. 30:50 Allah don't test us like that. 30:52 But if we have to be put into a test, then Allah must give us the heart to act in that manner. 31:00 Act in that manner. 31:01 Just forget about it. 31:02 Let go. 31:04 So sort out our disputes. 31:07 If we have hurt anybody's feelings, ask for maafiq. 31:12 Sometime within the family we have broken some family tie. 31:16 Mend the tie. 31:19 Try and take steps to mend the tie. 31:21 So these are the things that we should be working towards. 31:26 Right? 31:27 Side by side we bang our animals. 31:29 We start sharpening our knives. 31:32 Getting our... 31:34 Skinning equipment sorted out and digging our holes for slaughtering. 31:39 That all is happening. 31:41 That all is the exciting part because it's something new. 31:45 You see, we are natural born farmers, all of us. 31:48 We are supposed to be farming. 31:50 Close to nature. 31:51 But now we ended up in a concrete jungle. 31:54 So now when you come back to basics, you feel a little nice about yourself. 31:58 So that's the exciting part. 32:00 Handling the animals and all that. 32:03 Hatay hatay. 32:03 With that. 32:05 That must continue. 32:06 Nobody say must stop that. 32:08 Continue with that. 32:09 But side by side, this is more important. 32:13 The taqwa. 32:13 That we must develop our taqwa. 32:16 Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala give us tawfiq. 32:27 Ayy mere daata, ayy mere maalik, ayy mere maula, ayy mere wali. 32:36 Ayy mere daata, ayy mere maalik, ayy mere maula, ayy mere wali. 32:46 Shahan shahid wa alam tu hai. 32:52 Sab se teri sarkar hai aani. 32:58 Shahan teri har aan nai hai. 33:02 Gaah jamani. 33:04 Gaah janani. 33:09 O bi ajab khush waqt hai jisne qalb me teri yaad basani. 33:19 Shughl mera bas ab tu ilahi. 33:24 Shamu sahar ho Allah Allah. 33:31 Lete bete. 33:34 Chalte. 33:35 Firti. 33:36 Aat pihir ho. 33:38 Allah. 33:39 Allah. 33:40 Allah. 33:44 Allah. 33:45 Allah. 33:47 Allah. 33:48 Allah. 33:49 Allah. 33:50 Allah. 33:53 Allah. 33:53 Allah. 33:54 Allah. 33:55 Allah. 33:57 Allah. 34:24 Allah. 34:25 Allah. 34:26 Allah. 34:28 Allah. 34:29 Allah. 34:35 Kasb me duniyahi ke raha me. 34:39 Deen ki daulat kuch na kamai. 34:46 Waqt yuhi bekaar guzara. 34:51 Umr yuhi ghaflat me gawai. 34:57 Khalq mein sabse mein hi bura hoon. 35:02 Koi nahi hai mujh mein balai. 35:09 Khalq mein sabse mein hi bura hoon. 35:14 Koi nahi hai mujh mein balai. 35:22 Mujhsa koi badkar na hoga. 35:27 Kaunsi maini ki na burahi. 35:34 Shun mera bas ab to ilahi. 35:38 Shamo sahar ho. 35:40 Allah. 35:42 Allah. 35:45 Lete bete. 35:47 Chalte. 35:48 Firti. 35:49 Aat pihir ho. 35:50 Allah. 35:51 Allah. 35:56 Allah. 35:57 Allah. 35:59 Allah. 36:00 Allah. 36:01 Allah. 36:02 Allah. 36:03 Allah. 36:22 Nafs ke shar se mujh ko bachane. 36:24 Ayy mere Allah. 36:24 Ayy mere Allah. 36:25 Panjaye gham se mujh ko chura de. 36:27 Ayy mere Allah. 36:29 Ayy mere Allah. 36:45 Surah Al-Fatiha. 37:10 Apna banale. 37:12 Apna banale. 37:15 Ay mere Allah. 37:17 Ay mere Allah. 37:21 Shul mera bas abtu ilahi. 37:26 Shamu sahar ho. 37:28 Allah. 37:29 Allah. 37:32 Allah. 37:32 Allah. 37:32 Allah. 37:33 Allah. 37:34 Allah. 37:35 Allah. 37:35 Allah. 37:36 Allah. 37:59 Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah Allah 38:13 Alhamdulillah. 38:14 Alhamdulillah. 38:14 Alhamdulillah. 38:15 Alhamdulillah. 38:16 Alhamdulillah. 38:35 Jam-e-Mahabbat apna pila de. 38:40 Ayy mere Allah. 38:43 Ayy mere Allah. 38:48 Dil me mere yaad apni racha de. 38:52 Ayy mere Allah. 38:55 Ayy mere Allah. 38:59 Shughl mera bas ab to ilahi. 39:03 Shamu sahar ho. 39:05 Allah. 39:06 Allah. 39:11 Lete bete. 39:13 Chalte. 39:14 Fierte. 39:15 Aat pehir ho. 39:16 Allah. 39:17 Allah. 39:18 Allah. 39:19 Allah. 39:22 Allah. 39:23 Allah. 39:24 Allah. 39:26 Allah. 39:27 Allah. 39:28 Allah. 39:29 Al-Fatiha. 39:48 Deedai dil me tujh ko basa lu. 39:53 Sab se hata lu apni nazar me. 40:00 Tera hi jalwa peshe nazar ho. 40:06 Jao kahi me dekhu jidar me. 40:12 Tera tasawwur aisa jamal. 40:17 Qalb me misle naqshi hajar me. 40:24 Tera tasawwur aisa jamal. 40:30 Qalb me misle naqshi hajar me. 40:36 Alhamdulillah. 40:57 Shulamira. 40:59 Bas. 40:59 Abtu ilahi. 41:02 Shamsahar. 41:03 Allah. 41:04 Allah. 41:10 Lete bete. 41:13 Chalte firte. 41:16 Aat per ho. 41:18 Allah. 41:19 Allah. 41:22 Allah. 41:23 Allah. 41:24 Allah. 41:26 Allah. 41:27 Allah. 41:28 Allah. 41:30 Allah. 41:31 Allah. 41:32 Allah. 41:33 Allah. 41:35 Allah. 41:37 Allah. 41:39 Allah. 41:40 Allah. 41:41 Allah. 41:43 Allah. 41:49 Apna mujhe majzoob bana le. 41:54 Tera hi soda ho mere sal me. 42:02 Teri mahabat ho ragho pe me. 42:07 Jaan me tan me. 42:09 Dil me jigal me. 42:14 Shad raho meh. 42:17 Ranj ho khushi meh. 42:19 Sood ho ziyah meh. 42:22 Nafa ho zarar meh. 42:27 Farkh na dekoo. 42:29 Shah ho gada meh. 42:32 Dur ho sadaf meh. 42:34 Laal ho guhar meh. 42:38 Shud. 42:39 Mera. 42:39 Bas. 42:40 Abtu. 42:41 Ilahi. 42:42 Shamu. 42:43 Sahar. 42:44 Ho. 42:45 Allah. 42:46 Allah. 42:49 Allah. 42:49 Allah. 42:49 Allah. 42:50 Allah. 42:50 Allah. 42:51 Allah. 42:52 Allah. 42:52 Allah. 43:18 Allah. 43:19 Allah. 43:21 Allah. 43:22 Allah. 43:23 Allah. 43:25 Allah. 43:45 Allah. 43:46 Allah. 43:48 Allah. 43:49 Allah. 43:51 Allah. 43:52 Allah. 43:53 Allah. 43:57 La ilaha illallah. 44:01 Muhammadur Rasulullah. 44:05 Sallallahu alayhi wasallam. 44:13 Allah Allah. 44:14 Kaisa. 44:15 Pyara. 44:16 Naam. 44:16 Hai. 44:18 Aashiko. 44:19 Kameena. 44:21 Hur. 44:21 Jam. 44:23 Hai. 44:25 Allah. 44:25 Jalla. 44:26 Jalaluhu. 44:29 La ilaha illallah. 44:33 Muhammadur Rasulullah. 44:36 Sallallahu alayhi wasallam. 44:52 La ilaha illallah. 44:54 La ilaha illallah. 45:18 La ilaha illallah. 45:21 La ilaha illallah. 45:48 Alhamdulillah. 45:49 Alhamdulillah. 46:10 La ilaha illallah. 46:14 La ilaha illallah. 46:21 Muhammadur Rasulullah. 46:24 Sallallahu alayhi wasallam. 46:32 Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem. 46:33 Allahumma salli ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi Sayyidina Muhammad wa barik wa sallim. 46:41 Allahumma naka alhamdu kulluh. 46:43 Wa naka al-shukru kulluh. 46:45 Wa ilayka yurju'u al-amru kulluh. 46:47 La nuhsi sana'an. 46:49 La nuhsi sana'an alayk. 46:52 Anta kama asneyta ala nafsik. 46:54 Ya hayyu ya qayyum. 46:56 Bi rahmatika nastaghif. 46:58 Aslih lana sha'nana kullah. 47:01 Wa la takilna ila anfusina. 47:03 Tarfata'een. 47:04 Fa innaka in takilna ila anfusina. 47:08 Takilna ila du'fi wa khatee'ah. 47:13 Allahumma Rabbana. 47:14 Ya Rabbana. 47:17 Zalamna anfusana. 47:19 Wa illam taqfir lana wa tarhamna. 47:21 Lanakunanna minal khasirin. 47:23 Ya Allah. 47:27 Ya Rahman. 47:28 Ya Raheem. 47:29 Ya Kareem. 47:30 Ya Ghafoorul Raheem. 47:32 Ya Ra'ooful Raheem. 47:35 Ya Rahman Rahimeen. 47:36 Ya Rahiman al-Masakeen. 47:38 Ya Ghaffarul Dhunub. 47:40 Ya Sattarul Ujoob. 47:43 Ya zil jalaani wal ikram. 47:45 Ya zil jalaani wal ikram. 47:47 Ya zil jalaani wal ikram. 47:50 O Allah. 47:51 O our most beloved Allah. 47:53 Kind Allah. 47:55 Loving Allah. 47:56 Forgiving Allah. 47:58 Tolerant Allah. 48:00 Caring Allah. 48:01 O our Allah who loves to forgive. 48:05 O our Allah who becomes pleased when his bandhas turn to him for forgiveness. 48:10 O Allah we are your weak slaves 48:13 Full of faults. 48:14 Full of shortcomings. 48:16 Full of weaknesses. 48:17 Ya Allah, we have blackened our hearts with our sins. 48:22 For Allah, we are turning to You. 48:24 Ya Allah, You forgive us. 48:26 You forgive us. 48:35 Ya Allah, forgive our major sins. 48:37 Forgive our minor sins. 48:39 Forgive the sins that we committed openly, discreetly, knowingly, unknowingly, intentionally, unintentionally. 48:46 Ya Allah. 48:50 You have blessed us with Allah in this country. 48:53 You have blessed us with so many ulama. 48:56 You have blessed us with all the works of deen thriving in our country. 49:01 You have blessed us with so much of Islamic literature. 49:05 You have blessed us with Islamic institutes. 49:08 You have blessed us with so many masajids, so many madaris. 49:13 Ya Allah, there is no shortage of ilm. 49:15 Ya Allah, You have given us the tawfiq to learn what is right from wrong. 49:23 Ya Allah, we make so much of shukran to You that You didn't put us in a country where there is just total jahalat. 49:33 You didn't put us in a country 49:35 Where there is no way where we can seek our dini ilm. 49:40 Ya Allah. 49:43 But we are not making qadr of this ilm, O Allah. 49:46 Ya Allah, we are not bringing amal into our lives. 49:49 Ya Allah, we are at the doorstep of the month of Dhul Hijjah. 49:56 Ya Allah, millions will be at your house making dua. 50:01 Millions will be on the plains of Arafat. 50:05 Crying out to you. 50:09 Millions have presented themselves at the Roza-e-Aqdas of our beloved Rasul-e-Ban. 50:14 SubhanAllah. 50:23 Ya Allah, these wonderful, beautiful days lay ahead of us. 50:29 Ya Allah, but we are still in our floods. 50:34 Ya Allah. 50:35 You must tawfiq to exert ourselves during these days. 50:40 Ya Allah. 50:41 You must tawfiq to shed ourselves. 50:45 You must tawfiq to inculcate taqwa into our lives. 50:49 Ya Allah. 50:53 Bless us with your love. 50:55 Bless us with your love. 51:00 Bless us with the love of Nabi Karim. 51:02 Sallallahu alayhi wasallam. 51:04 Bless us with the fikr for our iman. 51:06 The fikr for deen. 51:08 The fikr for the ummah. 51:11 Itlaj. 51:14 Ya Allah. 51:14 Bless us with good akhlaq. 51:18 Ya Allah. 51:19 Save God from the evils of our nafs. 51:23 Ya Allah. 51:27 Grant us a Qalb-e-Sanim. 51:28 Bless us with the shari'i mizaj. 51:34 Give us tawfiq to realize, Ya Allah, what is permissible from impermissible, what is halal from haram, what is right from wrong, what is jais from najais. 51:48 Ya Allah, give us a realization, O Allah, 52:04 Ya Allah, You forgive us. 52:08 Forgive our parents. 52:09 Forgive our Asatizah. 52:11 Forgive our Mashaikh. 52:13 Forgive our spouses. 52:15 Forgive our children, family members, friends. 52:18 Those whose haq is upon us. 52:20 Those whose ihsan is upon us. 52:23 Those who have asked us to make dua for them. 52:25 Ya Allah, forgive the entire ummah of Nabi Karim. 52:29 Sallallahu alayhi wasallam. 52:32 Ya Allah, bless us with hidayah. 52:34 Bless us with hidayah. 52:36 Bless us with hidayah. 52:41 Cause you winds of hidayah to blow in the four corners of the world, O Allah. 52:46 Ya Allah, give us hidayah and make us a means of hidayah for others, O Allah. 52:51 Ya Allah, protect Harameen Sharifeen. 52:54 Ya Allah, accept the Hajj of the Hujjaj. 52:57 Accept the Hajj of the Hujjaj. 53:04 Except the dua of the hujjaj. 53:09 Ya Allah. 53:10 Except the qurmanis of the ummah around the globe. 53:13 Ya Allah. 53:15 Ya Allah. 53:16 You bless us with ikhlas. 53:17 You bless us with taqwa. 53:20 Remove from us riyaqari. 53:22 Nifaq. 53:23 Wujub. 53:23 Hupejah. 53:24 Hupemal. 53:25 Takampur. 53:31 Ya Allah, accept all the works of deen that are taking place. 53:34 Take all the works of deen from strength to strength. 53:39 Ya Allah, give us barakat in our rizq, barakat in our homes, in our businesses. 53:49 Ya Allah, give us tawfiq to live a life that is pleasing to You. 54:00 Ya Allah. 54:09 Open the locks of our hearts, SubhanAllah. 54:11 Open the locks of our hearts. 54:18 Ya Allah. 54:19 Those that are sick and needing, grant them shifa'i, kamila, ajina, mustamila, daima. 54:25 Those in financial difficulty, remove them from the financial 54:31 Ya Allah. 54:34 Those that don't have olaan, bless them with pious olaan. 54:38 Those that are seeking marriage partners, grand, imnaik, and salih, compatible marriage partners. 54:45 Ya Allah, when it comes towards the days of Eid, all families are happy, families are rejoicing. 54:52 Ya Allah, but there are those who are lying alone in old age homes. 55:01 There are those women of the ummah who have been widowed, who have been divorced, who are living all alone in their homes. 55:09 There are those men of the ummah, elderly men, who are all by themselves. 55:16 Ya Allah, give us all a strong connection with you so that we realize we are never alone. 55:26 We always have you with us. 55:28 Amen. 55:30 Ya Allah, you make it easy for the ummah around the globe. 55:34 Make it easy for the Muslims in Syria, in Afghanistan, in Palestine, in Sudan, in Somalia, in Iraq, around the globe. 55:47 Wherever Muslims are in trying times, Muslims are in difficult situations, in war-torn countries, poverty-stricken countries, disaster-stricken countries. 55:57 Ya Allah, you come to the aid and the assistance of the ummah and mankind around the globe. 56:03 Ya Allah, grant the mujahideen new nusrat. 56:06 Grant the mujahideen new nusrat. 56:09 Grant the enemy forces hidayah. 56:11 Hidayah is not written for them. 56:13 They have become obstinate. 56:15 And they want to see the destruction of the Muslim ummah. 56:19 And Allah, you destroyed them like you destroyed the aad and the thamud. 56:24 Ya Allah make us all from amongst the Uliya-e-Siddiqeen. 56:27 Bless us with the touch of wilayat. 56:30 Ya Allah one day we have to pass away. 56:33 When the time of our mourn comes. 56:36 Ya Allah that our death come in a condition that is pleasing to you. 56:41 An action that is pleasing to you. 56:43 Let us recite the Karima with our last breath. 56:47 Ya Allah bless us with mourn on the battlefield. 56:51 Ya Allah bless us with shahadah mourn. 56:55 Ya Allah, if that is not in our Muqaddir, we will say Maut. 56:59 Ya Allah. 57:01 In Medina Munawwara. 57:02 If that too is not in our Muqaddir, wherever our Maut may be, but let us pass away with Iman. 57:11 Let us pass away reciting the Kalima. 57:15 Ya Allah, You be pleased with us. 57:17 You be pleased with us. 57:19 Kama rehaal par rahm farma. 57:21 Karam farma. 57:27 Gandi. 57:28 Maaf. 57:28 Maaf. 57:29 Maaf. 58:01 Allahumma inna nasaluka ridhaka wal jannah. 58:05 Naudhubika min sadhika wal nahar. 58:09 Allahumma inna nasaluka ridhaka wal qadah. 58:13 Nasaluka mardala ishma'na al-muhd. 58:19 Nasaluka ladhata al-nadhari ila wajhik. 58:22 Al-shuqa al-nalik. 58:38 Allahumma inna tasaluqa min khayri ma sa'alaka minhu nabiyuka Sayyidina Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam. 58:45 Wa na'udhu bika min kulli sharrimasta a'ala minhu nabiyuka Sayyidina Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam. 58:53 Anta al-musta'ala. 59:00 Wa aalika al-balaq wa la hawla wa la quwwata illa billah. 59:08 Wa sallallahu ta'ala ala khairi khalqihi Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahabat. 59:18 Ameen. 59:18 Bi rahmatika ya Rahmatullah. 59:33 InshaAllah tomorrow night we'll be having program in Moira. 59:42 Jamat. 59:42 Days. 59:43 Half past seven. 59:45 Quarter past seven. 59:46 Azan. 59:46 Half past seven. 59:47 Jamat. 59:49 Thursday night in Sharnawin. 59:52 We have a program here on the biography of Sayyidina Abu Bakr. 59:58 In these ten days and nights, you can keep a roza, try and keep some, can't keep all, try and keep few in between. 1:00:09 Night. 1:00:10 Try and spend the nights in Ibadat. 1:00:13 Every night. 1:00:20 It mustn't be that in our excitement towards Eid al-Adha, we start falling short on our farais, etc. 1:00:32 One brother told me himself today, 1:00:37 He is doing some selling of sheep. 1:00:42 He likes it. 1:00:43 It's up. 1:00:44 It's something he enjoys doing. 1:00:46 So, Qurbani time now. 1:00:48 The town that he is in is not from here. 1:00:50 Another place. 1:00:53 So, he sells Qurbani animals. 1:00:57 So, he is telling me Sunday. 1:01:01 I was masbuk for Zuhr namaz and Asr namaz. 1:01:06 I said, why are you masbuk? 1:01:09 He said, no, my sheep came. 1:01:12 My sheep came. 1:01:14 Busy with the sheep now, you know. 1:01:17 So I became masbuk. 1:01:19 Zuhr time also, Asr time also. 1:01:22 So this is the point. 1:01:25 Instead of that Eid hype bringing more taqwa, 1:01:32 Now something that the person was doing, making it for Takbir-e-Ula, you know, because of Qurbani animals, now the Takbir-e-Ula was missed. 1:01:47 So we mustn't allow our nafs to get the better of us. 1:01:50 We get carried away in all the hype and then important ahkam of deen we are neglecting. 1:02:01 Right? 1:02:03 So then where is the taqwa going to develop? 1:02:08 You must understand, Sahabar, you know, slaughtering animals and all that was their daily thing. 1:02:16 Daily thing to them. 1:02:19 So when time came for them to do Eid, it wasn't like an exciting thing now, slaughtering one animal and, you know, bringing one or two animals in the yard and all that. 1:02:29 All that wasn't there. 1:02:31 They had animals. 1:02:34 Animals were available. 1:02:35 They were dealing with them all the time. 1:02:38 Whenever they needed to eat, no butcher shop. 1:02:42 They were slaughtering the animal and carrying on. 1:02:44 So it was a normal thing. 1:02:46 Right? 1:02:48 So for them when it came to qurbani, now they were ready making mudhakara and reminding themselves of that great qurbani of Ibrahim alayhi salam, Ismail alayhi salam and all that talim has been made. 1:03:03 Now with us, we don't deal with animals. 1:03:06 We've got nothing to do with this thing. 1:03:10 So now when Eid comes now, sometimes we get caught up in all this excitement. 1:03:14 The real maqsat, the real object of this Eid al-Adha is lost. 1:03:19 We're not concentrating on that. 1:03:22 What is the real object and the real thing that we're supposed to be focusing on? 1:03:30 Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la give me tawfiq. 1:03:32 Give you tawfiq. 1:03:34 Grandenta yawma tawfiq. 1:03:38 SubhanAllahi wa bihamdihi. 1:03:40 Subhanaka Allahumma wa bihamdika. 1:03:43 Nashhadu an la ilaha illa anta nastawfiruka wa natubu ilaih. 1:03:49 Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
Resolve Interpersonal Disputes : Give others the benefit of the doubt, ask for forgiveness (Maafi ), and drop grudges for the sake of Allah.
Maximize the First 10 Days of Dhul Hijjah : Engage in fasting, extra Ibadat , night prayers, and remembrance (Zikrullah ) during these blessed days, keeping the heart focused on Allah's pleasure.