Tohfa-e-Dulha Part 31

Main Topic Fulfilling the rights of others in marriage and family life, reviving the Sunnah of entering the home smiling, and avoiding the destructive path of intoxicants. ## Key Lessons - Focus on fulfilling the rights of others rather than demanding your own rights to build harmony in relationships. - On the Day of Judgment, Allah Ta'ala will question us regarding the rights we owed to others, not whether others fulfilled our rights. - Entering the home smiling is a Sunnah of Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam), despite the heavy responsibilities and worries he carried. - Intoxicants strip away human intellect, turning people worse than animals and leading to tragic sins and destroyed homes. - Transparency with one's spouse regarding finances, mobile phones, and daily activities protects the marriage from suspicion and fitnah. ## Quranic/Hadith References - Hadith: Sayyidatina A'ishah (Radiallahu Anha) narrated that whenever Nabi (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) entered the house, he entered smiling. - Hadith: Al-khamru jumma'ul ith (Intoxicants are the gatherer of all sins). - Quranic Verse: Ulaika kal an'am bal hum adal (They are like cattle, rather they are more astray). ## Practical Advice - Prioritize fulfilling your spouse's and relatives' rights instead of arguing for your own. - Adopt the Sunnah habit of entering your home with a cheerful smile. - Stay far away from all forms of intoxicants and drugs. - Be an open book with your wife by sharing access to your phone and finances to maintain trust.